Ages and Stages of 4-H Youth Development

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Autumn Britt, 4-H Program Manager
509-588-7817 • autumn.britt@wsu.edu

Introduction

As a leader, you will be working with 4-H youth across a variety of age groups. You have an important role helping these youth grown and develop. In order to be an effective leader and teacher, it is helpful to have an understanding of the various stages of child development and their basic characteristics.

Remember that these are guidelines and averages – all youth develop at their own pace, but there will be similarities in each age group and youth may share some characteristics. As you plan group projects and activities, keep these traits in mind in order to find teaching methods, instructional and presentation styles, and activity structures that work best for your youth.

Early Childhood

Characteristics

Learn best if physically active: Provide experiences that encourage physical activity, such as running, playing games, painting, etc.
Have better large-muscle control than fine motor skills: Use projects that can be completed successfully by beginners and that don’t require extensive fine grasping of small objects. Craft projects will likely end up messy as fine motor skills are still developing, so choose activities that will have easier cleanup.
Period of slow, steady growth: Because children in this age group experience a lot of brain and muscle development at once, give them opportunities to practice new skills regularly and to further develop already-acquired ones.

Social

Learning how to be friends and may have several “best friends”: Small group activities are effective for developing social skills and navigating conflict. They also allow for individual attention from adults that help with relationship building.
Beginning to understand empathy for others, but still self-oriented: Make believe and role-play activities can help children understand how others might think or feel in certain scenarios.
Children are starting to notice gender at this age and while they will enjoy playing in mixed groups, they may start to prefer playing with others who are their own gender by the end of this developmental period: Engage with young children in mixed gender activities.

Intellectual

Easily motivated and eager to try new things, but have short attention spans: Plan a wide range of activities that take a short time to complete. Keep instructions simple and easy to remember.
More interested in doing activities than completing them: Focus activities on the process and learning new things rather than creating a finished project.
Thinking is concrete – children in this stage must have directly experience something through seeing it, hearing it, feeling it, tasting it, or smelling it in order to think about it: Demonstrate activities instead of relying on verbal instructions. Create sample projects (but don’t make them perfect – children need to not believe they have to be precise in their outcome). Use the senses to help children experience concepts and ideas.
Naturally curious and eager to discover ways to make sense of their world: Allow for exploration and spontaneity in activities. Be flexible. Allow children to try out different ways to do things.

Emotional

Sensitive to criticism and don’t accept failure well: Find ways to give positive encouragement and assistance. Plan activities that allow for success and facilitate cooperation, rather than competition.

Middle Childhood

Characteristics

Spirited with boundless energy: Provide active learning experiences.
Girls will be physically developing faster than boys, some may even be entering puberty: Avoid gender-based competitions.
Large muscle development and fine motor skills are increasing and their bodies are getting physically stronger, balance and coordination are also increasing: Plan activities that allow youth to move about and use their bodies.

Social

Enjoy group activities and cooperation and feel loyal to their groups and clubs: Emphasize group learning experiences and form groups to plan activities together. Foster a sense of pride in being a 4-H member.
May prefer to group themselves with other children of the same gender: Plan learning experiences with this in mind and allow youth to self-select into same-gender groups.
Admire and imitate older youth: Encourage mentoring or cross-age experiences and activities.
Need guidance from adults to stay on task and perform at their best: Work closely with this age group and enlist older youth to help with this task.

Intellectual

Interests often change rapidly and children do best when work is presented in small segments to maintain focus: Allow for many brief learning experiences and give simple, short directions. Allow youth to interpret activities in different ways based on their interest areas.
Vary greatly in their academic abilities, interests, and reasoning skills: Offer activities that are appropriate and adaptable for a wide range of abilities so all children have a chance to succeed.
Easily motivated and eager to try new things: Provide variety in activities, both in the type of activity and in the subject matter offered.

Emotional

Comparing themselves with other youth is normal: Encourage children to take pride in their own work, efforts, progress, and achievements while avoiding comparisons to the progress of others.
Prefer recognition and praise for their work: Give specific, individual praise and point out youth growth. Consider how youth prefer to be recognized, as not every child is comfortable with public award ceremonies or high-profile recognition.

Young Teens

Characteristics

Experience rapid physical changes with growth spurts often happening sooner in girls: Be willing to talk about physical changes and accommodate for self-consciousness and discomfort, as youth are often embarrassed by their changing bodies.
May be starting to experience sexual attraction and a keen interest in the ways their own bodies work: Provide honest information to the questions they have in an age-appropriate way. Be non-judgmental and honest if they have concerns about their bodies and development and reassure them this is a normal process. Listen to fears and worries without trivializing them.
Interested in team sports and active games: Encourage active, fun, learning experiences.

Social

Concerned about social rules and manners, appearance, and being liked by their peers: Encourage learning experiences related to self-discovery, self-understanding, and getting along with others. Be patient with behaviors related to appearance that may seem excessive.
Move away from dependency on parents to dependency on opinions of peers: Parents may need help understanding that this shift is a sign of growing maturity and not a rejection of family. Identity formation at this age includes testing boundaries and determining a sense of self that is independent from their parents.
Becoming interested in more mixed-gender activities than earlier stages where friend groups may be more divided by gender: Provide opportunities for all genders of youth to participate together without feeling uncomfortable – youth may work together best if they plan activities themselves.

Intellectual

Tend to reject solutions from adults in favor of their own: Involve young teens in setting rules and planning activities.
Beginning to think more abstractly and hypothetically – can think about their own thinking and are becoming skilled in the use of logic and understanding cause and effect:
Can take responsibility for planning and evaluation of their own projects: Plan many varied opportunities to achieve and have their competence recognized by others. Concentrate on developing individual skills.

Emotional

Can be painfully self-conscious and critical – may be vulnerable to bouts of low self-esteem: Plan opportunities to achieve adn have their competence recognized by others. Concentrate on developing individual skills.
Changes in hormones and thinking contribute to mood swings: Remember that early adolescents are known for their drama and feelings that seem extreme to adults. Accept their feelings and be careful to not to embarrass, criticize, or trivialize their emotions.
Desire independence, but still need parental guidance and help: Encourage young teens to work with adults and older teens to establish connections that help them feel like those who are older than them are still approachable.

Teens

Characteristics

Many teens have overcome the awkwardness of puberty, but some are still growing at a fast pace – many teens are concerned with body image: Avoid comments that criticize, compare stature, or compare the size or shape of bodies. This includes fat-shaming with regards to exercise and food.

Social

Strong desire for status in their peer group: Establish a climate that is conducive to peer support.
Increased interest in coeducational activities and dating activity increases: Allow teens to plan coeducational and group-oriented projects or activities. Adults may need to set clear activities about what public displays of affection are appropriate for meeting time.
Often want to take on adult leadership roles: Provide opportunities for teens to take on more responsibilities for planning their own programs and activities and for partnership with adults.

Intellectual

Reach high levels of abstract thinking and problem solving: Put teens in real-life problem solving situations and allow them to fully discover their ideas, make decisions, and evaluate outcomes.
Developing community consciousness and concern for the well-being of others: Encourage civic projects in service to their communities and individuals.
Increasing self-knowledge, personal philosophies begin to emerge: Allow time and plan activities for teens to explore and express their own beliefs.
Need life-planning guidance as they begin to think about leaving home, starting college, employment and careers, and making independent financial decisions: College visits, field trips to businesses, career exploration activities, conversations with college students or working adults, and financial education activities can be helpful in allowing teens to see the possibilities in their futures more clearly.

Emotional

Feelings of inferiority and inadequacy are common: Encourage teens by helping them see their positive self-worth.
Gaining independence and developing firm individual identity: Give teens responsibility and expect them to follow through. Hold them accountable for the projects they take on. Establish expectations for communications when there are barriers to follow-through or completion of a project. Provide opportunities that help teens explore their identity, values, and beliefs.

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Adapted from Missouri 4-H Center for Youth Development’s publication Ages and Stages of 4-H Youth Development (PDF) by Mary Jo Williams, State 4-H Youth Development Specialist, and Jamie Tomek, former extension associate.